Instead of putting others in their place, put yourself in their place!

I live in a world that is not always wheelchair friendly.  Yet, I’m creative and usually find ways around it.  Still, sometimes, a situation can surprise me.

Several weeks ago, I was working late. I hadn’t eaten and was very hungry.  On the way home, I decided to get a piece of pizza.  My neighbourhood pizza parlor is not wheelchair accessible.  It has steps up to their door.  Undeterred, I waited for a customer to come by.  I asked him to let the counter staff know that I wanted a slice of veggie pizza.

Surprisingly, the customer came back to the door with a message, “Go home and order your pizza by phone”.  I was speechless.

At home, I went on Facebook and messaged the company privately.  They responded right away with an apology.  They said they would speak to the manager and he would get back to me.   I received no follow up call.

 

One thing I learned in my life is that everyone has their story.  When we listen and respond with a compassionate heart things become easier… instantly.

There may be many reasons why I was turned away.  These are my top three reasons (based only on my speculation):

1)  Staff was not able to leave the counter unattended and come to the door.

2)  Staff misunderstood my order because I only wanted a slice.

3)  Staff were inexperienced and did not know the best way to deal with my request.

 

I did not get my pizza that night but I learned to be kind.

There is an Amish proverb that says, “Instead of putting others in their place, put yourself in their place.”

What a beautiful world we would create if everyone responded with an understanding heart!